Sunday, July 7, 2013

Hijras – The Third Sex

Hijras — Nabiha Meher @ 8:42am June 8, 2007

The word hijra is an Urdu word meaning eunuch or hermaphrodite. However, in reality, hijras are very diverse and most join the community as young boys. Hijras consist of hermaphrodites, as well as women who are unable to menstruate and lead the “normal” female life which consists of getting married and producing children. However, a great number of hijras are men who identify themselves as more feminine than masculine, mostly because their sexual desire is for men and not women.

The hijras are an ancient community in the Indian subcontinent with members in Pakistan and Bangladesh. They are classified as the third sex and have their own gender role. Serena Nanda describes them as “man minus maleness” and “man plus woman”. They are not considered either because of their inability to reproduce. In the Indian subcontinent, great emphasis is placed on one’s ability to have children. Someone who is unable to have children is not considered a true man or woman. Therefore, hijras are a separate identity, who fit into neither category, with aspects of both genders.

The population of hijras in India is estimated to be between 50,000 and 1.2 million. There is a huge disparity in the numbers because population censuses only give space to define either males or females. There are no reliable statistics.

The traditional occupation for hijras consists of begging for alms when bestowing blessings on male babies and at weddings. They are notorious for knowing when a baby boy is born and arriving at the right house to sing and dance and demand alms. Most of their songs are about pregnancy and their dances are mostly parodies of pregnant women. They also demand to inspect the baby to check if he is a “normal” boy or an intersexed baby, in which case they might start demanding that the child be handed over to them as it is a hijra. It seems ironic that the hijras, who are unable to reproduce, have the power to bestow fertility blessings on brides. The power to do so comes to them through Bahuchara Mata who is a version of the Mother Goddess. The Mother Goddess plays the role of the mother, who is the creator and nurturer, as well as the destroyer. Hence, she has the power to grant fertility or take it away. However, because of increasing westernization, the traditional roles of hijras are no longer in as much demand as they used to be. Hijras have a hard time accessing houses and apartment buildings because of security, and with an increasing middle class that has access to other forms of entertainment such as cinemas, hijras are no longer required for diversions. A great number of hijras are turning to prostitution which goes against the hijra ideal of asceticism. Ideally hijras are meant to renounce sex and be the devotees of Bahuchara Mata.

All “true” hijras are required to undergo an emasculation operation called nirvan. Nirvan means rebirth and most hijras see this operation as their rebirth into the hijra form from the male. It consists of the complete removal of the penis and testes and is essential in transforming them from men to women. Only after this are they granted their special powers of blessings and curses. The operation consists of three stages: the preparation, the operation and the recovery. All stages consist of various complex rituals. The preparation stage involves praying to Bahuchara Mata and waiting for a good signal from her. One such gesture is the breaking of a coconut, and unless the coconut is broken in half, the hijra-to-be does not go through with the operation because it is seen as a sign that Bahuchara Mata does not want this person to be a hijra just yet. Once the operation has been granted to a hijra, she is given a period of rest where she is not allowed to work or be involved in any sexual activity. This can vary from a week to a month. The actual operation is done by a hijra called a dai ma who is granted the power to do the operation by Bahuchara Mata. On the day of the operation, the dai ma lets herself into the room of the hijra to be operated on and prays to Bahuchara Mata. Then she awakens the hijra to be operated on and encourages her to pray and repeatedly chant Mata, so that she falls into a trance like state. Then the assistant holds the hijra back and encourages her to bite on her hair while the dai ma ties up the penis and testes, makes two diagonal cuts in them and pulls them out. The severed genitals are then buried under a tree and a tube is placed in the urethra. The blood coming out is allowed to flow because it is seen as the bad “male” blood and getting rid of it will get rid of the male inside the hijra. This is one of the reasons why hijras do not get proper doctors to operate upon them since they would stop the blood flow. The time when the blood is flowing is considered the most important time where the hijra, who has just been operated upon, is battling between life and death. Many prayers are said for her, but the blood is never stopped. The recovery period also involves many rituals which include forty days of rest (similar to that for a woman who has just given birth) and vomit inducing foods to get rid of the “maleness”. This operation is against the law in India; therefore, it is done behind closed doors.

Although most hijras dress as women, they engage in activities that would be considered inappropriate for Indian women such as dancing in public. They almost seem to be a caricature of women because hijras wear their hair long and wear saris and other traditional female dresses, whereas, in modern subcontinental society, the upper and middle class women cut their hair and wear western “male” clothes. Hijras also sing and dance and sway their hips in public, which women do not do.

All hijras are part of one community. The community consists of households where all the members contribute to run it like an Indian subcontinental joint family system. All hijras are part of one of seven houses which function as a family unit. Each house has a chief who represents them at meetings with all the other houses in order to discuss important issues. Being part of any specific house does not mean having an advantage or disadvantage over anything. They came into being in order to organize the community. Anyone wishing to join the hijra community must be sponsored by a guru whose house she will join. The guru functions as a teacher, as well as a mother. In fact, hijras refer to their guru’s guru and other members of their household with feminine relative names such as grandmother (nani for the guru’s guru) and aunt (khala for their guru’s sisters). Hijras, whose gurus have more than one disciple, refer to each other as their sisters.

Although most hijras identify with Islam, they do not seem to have a conflict with being part of a community that worships the Mother Goddess instead of Allah. Most of them fast during the Muslim holy month of Ramzan, get buried instead of cremated, and if they get married, they have a Muslim wedding called a nikkah. Some hijras do get married and live with their husbands, but by doing so, they are not cut off from their community. They live apart from them but still work with them. Most of them also adopt Muslim female names.

The hijras acceptance into Indian society is due to Hinduism more than Islam. Many Hindu deities are linked to the hijras such as Arjun (who lives for a year as eunuch), Vishnu (who transformed himself in to the most beautiful woman in the world in order to defeat a demon by seducing him), Shiva (who is both male and female and whose image is represented by a phallus in a vagina), and Krishna’s son Samba (who was a homosexual and cross dresser). “What is noteworthy about the hijras is that the role is so deeply rooted in Indian culture that it can accommodate a wide variety of temperaments, personalities, sexual needs, gender identities, cross-gender behaviours, and levels of commitment without losing its cultural meaning.” (Nanda, Neither Man nor Woman: The Hijras of India 19-20). Because hijras are able to identify with different figures in Indian mythology, they are tolerated and were traditionally much respected as the third sex. Also, as Serena Nanda points out, hijras do not have to conform to one set of norms since they are a very diverse group and have room for such diversity in their community.

The British rulers in India stripped the hijras of the laws that granted them the protection they received under Muslim rulers and regarded them as a menace to society. Because the hijras did not fit the category of male or female, the British passed laws that required the hijras to wear turbans in order to distinguish them from women.

Hijras in India are actively involved with raising awareness on issues, such as the problems related to discrimination against hiring hijras for certain jobs because of who they are. All official documents require that the sex of the individual be stated as either male or female, leaving no space for hijras. Hijras are not allowed in most restaurants, even when they have the money to eat. The treatment of hijras in hospitals is an issue of great concern because whenever a hijra is admitted in to a hospital, the doctors never knows whether to place her in the male ward or female ward. Some hijras are actively involved in raising awareness about AIDS because it is estimated that one in three hijras in Bombay is HIV positive.

Q: Do the hijras leave the penis and take out the testes only?
A: In order to become a “true” hijra they have to remove both so that they are as close to being a woman a possible.

Q: Hasn’t hijra prostitution been around for a very long time?
A: Not to the extent it is today. Earlier, hijras used to sell sex at certain temples for religious purposes. However, today some gurus encourage young hijras to become prostitutes because that brings them more money than other jobs do.

Q: Are hijras incapable of reproducing biologically?
A: Yes. One of the most important tests for joining the hijra community last century was proof of impotence. Potential hijras were made to sleep next to a prostitute for a number of days.

Q: Do hijras marry within the hijra community, or do they marry men or women?
A: They marry men and refer to them as their husbands.

Q: How are hijras treated in Pakistan and India?
A: They are viewed with different attitudes. Some people regard them as a menace whereas others feel sorry for them. Because Pakistan is a Muslim country, hijras do not have the same kind of respect as they would get under Hinduism. They are harassed and do not have much protection.

Q: Did the concept of hijras come to the Indian sub-continent from the Muslims?
A: They probably brought a different attitude with them which must have merged with what the hijras are today, especially since most of them identify with Islam. However, the concept of hijras is in Hindu literature and is part of the Hindu religion.

source: http://nabihameher.wordpress.com/2007/06/08/hijras-%E2%80%93-the-third-sex/

Why marriage equality may not be that equal

What she wants Hijras have been marrying their lovers much before the glamour for legal recognition of same-sex marriage started

Tehelka Magazine, Volume 10 Issue 19, Dated 11 May 2013

IF YOU have more than five gay friends on Facebook, you probably saw the YouTube video of the New Zealand MPs breaking into a Maori love song after they passed the gay marriage act. Though I fit the criterion, given that I am what most people in the country would refer to as a chhakka, I’m yet to see it. A similar act passed in the French parliament in the same month resulted in a wave of status updates cheering these decisions. These I have read, and almost everyone expressed some combination of hope about India following suit and despair on how we would take so long to catch up with the ‘progressive’ West.

Now what exactly do we want to catch up with? Scholars like Ruth Vanita and Saleem Kidwai have made the claim, with enough evidence to support that same-sex marriages have happened in the subcontinent before colonisation and even after. A hijra friend had claimed way back in 2003 that in just six months, she had been invited to witness at least 15 weddings between hijras and their partners, or between male couples. Or consider Koovagam, where hundreds of hijras come every year to marry their lovers. So clearly, it’s not that people here don’t get married, but that we want to claim legal status now.

What will this legal status offer someone from the hijra community, who works on the street and has negligible private property or savings? No alimony for sure, because more often than not it is her partner who is dependent on her earnings. Maybe we wish to protect the rights of her partner to her marginal savings post her death? But then again, a hijra’s dharma stipulates that she give her wealth to her guru or chelas, and not leave it for some man, who is likely to desert her at some point to return to his ‘true’ family. Same-sex marriage for the hijra, then, allows the man she marries to make a legal claim for the wealth that he would otherwise have been considered not deserving of, much like how parents or kin of hijras have been known in recent years to come in and make legal claims for their property after their death, even as they possibly were ashamed of her existence till then. In effect, legalising same-sex marriages offers nothing for the hijra community at least.

So we seem to want same-sex marriages to protect the legal rights of urban middle-class gay or lesbian identified men and women who might want to contract a legal marriage to ensure that they are able to access corporate and state benefits that accrue to couples. This urban minority, and its desire for a global LGBT identity, is increasingly the focus of much of LGBT legal rights work, even as it claims to speak for all people expressing transgressive erotic desires. This subsuming of the hijra into the global language of LGBT rights is reflective of the many ways in which legal LGBT activism in the country directs itself.

In the past decade, the euphoric attention that was brought to the reading down of Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code has been questioned by many commentators as not reflecting the concerns of hijras and other marginalised communities. In 2003, a number of groups and individuals, who met in Pune at a meeting hosted by the lesbian-bisexual women’s collective Olava, opposed the petition filed in the Delhi High Court, reasoning that by asking for the exclusion of all consensual private sexual activity, the petitioners were, in effect, not concerning themselves with the lives of hijras, whose transgressive erotic acts in public spaces were most violently regulated by the police. And given that barely any cases had been filed under Section 377 since Independence, and that hijras were constantly arrested on propped-up charges of offending public morality, the group expressed the need for social action against such violent morality to be far more cogent and necessary in order to effect a change in social attitudes towards alternate erotic expressions.

The group saw the legal battle against Section 377, and the particular shape it had taken, as mostly driven from an upper-class male standpoint that was increasingly constructing it as the proverbial Damocles sword that threatened the legitimacy of their private sexual expressions. That this upper class gay-identified male vision was being directed through the language of human rights and was offering the hijra community as one which would be saved by these particular legal reforms was seen as problematic, given that repealing Section 377 was not a primary demand of the community.

This particular problem is also reflected in the way that a section of LGBT rights activists have been demanding that rape laws be made gender neutral, again under the pretext of giving hijras recourse to justice against rape and sexual assault. Given the new law’s recommendation to widen the existing definition of rape through the idea of sexual assault that included within its ambit acts such as sexual propositioning through touch and exposure of private parts, there is a high possibility that gender- neutral laws could more easily be used against hijras by the police, with help from male complainants, on two accounts. First, that the hijra’s mode of navigating public places includes acts of shaming men who ridicule her through a display of the castrated sexual organ. Second, that their livelihoods were also dependent on an overt sexual flirting with male bodies in the public space. Here, too, LGBT activism has ignored various other possibilities, such as demanding a Prevention of Atrocities Against Hijras Act, akin to the SC/ST Prevention of Atrocities Act, to offer real justice against violence.

Just as the singing of a Maori song in the New Zealand parliament hides the violent history of colonialism and the continuing racial discrimination by appropriating a marginal native voice, we might similarly be responsible for appropriating hijras to further a minority elite group’s global interests; at the cost of a violent erasure of a way of living through transgressive erotic desire that the hijras have built over many decades. The hijra is getting married as and when she wants; she’s not the coy bride looking stateward for approval, just as repealing Section 377 or gender neutral rape laws are not her demands. In order to avoid appropriating her, we might have to start any political activism, legal or otherwise, on marriage or rape, from the standpoint of a system of living that has perhaps been the most visible — if not the only — recourse for any kind of alternate sexual expression, apart from sex workers, for at least 4,000 years and built on a wealth of practical knowledge. Particularly when one considers the imminent threat to this system, not just from market forces selling individuated lifestyle, but also from similar strategies of translating the hijra as an individual transgender person effected by globally-oriented LGBT rights work and NGO speak. Such a beginning is surely not only obligatory, but also vital and just.

source: http://www.tehelka.com/why-marriage-equality-may-not-be-that-equal/

A marriage with a difference


Vinita Chaturvedi, TNN | Feb 26, 2012, 03.17 PM IST

As a kinnar bride and a straight guy gear up to get 'married' today (Feb 26) in Nagpur, we bring you the finer nuances of this bold love story. It's an exclusive...

This could easily be a typical Bollywood potboiler, albeit with a difference. Ismein hero hai, heroine hai, thrills hein, villain hai! But, here the plot takes a 180 degree turn and this action-packed romantic thriller becomes a new-age love story that is poised to write its name on the sands of time. Meet Shabnam (nee Gopal Khawaskar), the bride-to-be, who is a Kinnar (eunuch) and her would-be groom Mukesh, a straight guy. Together, they have decided to say boo to social taboos and now they are getting married on Sunday, February 26. As the two get formally engaged ahead of the wedding, we trace the tale of love...

Love at first sight!
This romance started over six months back, when Shabnam (21) went to visit Mukesh's (22) sister, who was her cousin's friend. "It was love at first sight for both of us. Mukesh asked for my cell number the first time we met. We soon became friends, and it then developed into love," says the bride-to-be. Mukesh, more shy of the two, chips in, "I can't express what I feel for her in words, but I want to protect her from the big, bad world and take care of her forever."

Tough road ahead
Shabnam's guru Kashish, who's the head of a hijra clan, gets emotional while blessing the young couple. "I really pray that my 'girl' stays happy forever in her new life and I want her groom to protect her from all the obstacles in life," says she.

Mukesh admits that both of them have a tough road ahead. "But, I'm ready for all the barbs. Now onwards, I will earn and she will run the home. My family is not attending the wedding on Sunday, but I'm capable of taking care of my responsibilities alone. I know, we will not have our own children, so we can go for adoption later," says he.

'Grooms for my hijras'
The seniormost guru of the clan and 'naani' of the bride-to-be, Seeta Shah, can't hide her happiness. "I want all my hijra kids to find grooms for themselves, so that they are no longer marginalised and alone in this world. This marriage will spread awareness in the society that kinnars are humans too. They have emotions and they need to be loved too. Tomorrow evening, we are organising the haldi ceremony for the couple. And on Sunday evening, the marriage will be solemnised according to Buddhist Rites at the Jhingabai Takli ground in Nagpur. I want to invite common people as well as the entire hijra community for the wedding. Everyone's blessings are needed!

Legally speaking
Agreed, that this bold step will go a long way in releasing the hijras from the shackles of anonymity. But, according to senior High Court lawyer, Navneet Shukul, this marriage is null and void. "The Hindu Marriage Act doesn't recognise such marriages, but no action can be taken against the couple by the police," says he.

source: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/people/A-marriage-with-a-difference/articleshow/12043302.cms

Monday, July 1, 2013

Abheena and the Dancing Queens, Trans-dance of yin & yang

Abheena and the Dancing Queens are bringing drag culture to the Indian mainstream. Sunday Mid Day drops in for an evening rehearsal to see how they use drag to forge personal and collective identities that are neither masculine nor feminine, but rather their own complex genders
The drag queen is nature's perfect entertainer. What more regal source of sass could God have divined than the glam star who emerges when a man dons a dress, dances like an apsara with a heightened feminine persona, and wears make-up with the artistry of a professional?
Different from hijras (eunuchs), who almost always perform at conventional cultural occasions like marriages and birth rituals, drag queens take the stage at more private and alternative social spaces. Like the screening of LGBT films at French cultural hub Alliance Française de Bombay, where transgender dance troupe Abheena and the Dancing Queens performed their fiery brand of Bollywood dancing last week. 
Spearheaded by the suave and statuesque Abheena Aher, a communications specialist with Johns Hopkins University, this ambitious bunch of gay and transgender dancers is taking drag to the mainstream. And it's about time. Their clan has toiled endlessly in ghettos, hosting shows for a pittance that barely pay for their extravagant costumes and make-up. The bid is to bring drag to the show-front, while also spreading awareness on HIV/AIDS through musical plays. Abheena and her friends are part of a larger trend the world is witnessing.
Internationally, there was a time when drag queens simply imitated iconic women on stage and screen. Today, pop stars such as Lady GaGa are imitating drag queens like a playbook. The influence is visible in everything from her costumes, dance and attitude to stage persona. Michael Jackson's sister Janet reportedly took cues for her high-energy videos from huge drag performances she loved to attend. Meanwhile, pop diva Beyonce Knowles runs across the stage and rolls into a Death Drop, in true drag queen style. 
It's a dance move Urmi Jadhav has been showing off for years. "You throw your body to the ground; but without warning," says doe-eyed Urmi, a lead dancer in Abheena's rotating group of 14. Such dramatic drag dance moves, she asserts, are also used by Bollywood actresses who must employ unexpected physical manoeuvres that resonate all the way to the back of a cavernous venue. A full-time counsellor at Humsafar Trust by day, Urmi transforms into a danseuse on most evenings. A slew of "Best Dancer" trophies lining the shelves of her Vile Parle home are proof that her graceful turns a la all-time idol Madhuri Dixit-Nene, are a hit with dance contest judges. "The winning spree was so fantastic, the trust's CEO told me, hang up your ghungroos; give others a chance to win too!" she says with a visible blush. 
Her colleague Aleesha Khan is another Madhuri fan. "Aishwarya (Rai) is good too, especially in Devdas's Dola Re, in which she matches Madhuri step-for-step," says Aleesha aka Alam, while rehearsing for queer film fest Kashish. It's been a decade since the curvy self-help group co-ordinator came out of the closet. "I'm one of the lucky few to be introduced to my second family at Humsafar when I hit 18 years. So, I became comfortable with my sexual identity early enough," says Aleesha. When she is not in costume for a show, you'll find her sporting jeans and tee.
"I live with my brothers. This is how I dress at home too. Except, this one time a girl's family came over with a marriage proposal for my brother!" she says, as Abheena readies for a Helen number in a one-shoulder hot pink gown. Piya Tu streams on the sound system, and she strikes a confident pose that is more Madonna in the gayconic Vogue video. Abheena looks like desert queen Priscilla in her striking make-up.
Considering how drag queens start off with the raw ingredients of a man, and turn him into a glamorous woman, there is a notion that gay men and drag queens are clued into ways for women to look better. Take Miss J, the tall thin black queen who has taught Paris models to walk for years. R&B singer Gladys Knight has a transsexual make-up artiste. A former drag queen does the make-up for soul singer Patti Labelle. Female impressionist Kevin Aviance was employed by Destiny's Child, who took runway walking lessons from him. Fabulous!

source: http://www.mid-day.com/specials/2010/mar/280310-Dancing-Queens-Abheena-Eunuch.htm